Just imagine a version of her that actually comes off as innocent and sweet. What is the best strategy to set the record straight? Instead, expect your complete indifference to be the primus motor for her falling head over heals in love you, you alpha-dog. The strategy I suspect most interesting is the one where you extract an obligation from her, which she will stick to, without you having to give one in return. I think the first date after just a makeout is gonna come on a little strong, seems kind of desperate unless she REALLY likes you you might get some push back.
I can see several possibilities: #1: First date, the same date you make it out with her. #2: After you bang her the first time, before she leaves your pad or you leave hers. I think your best bet is #2 after sleeping with someone its totally reasonable to inquire if shes sleeping with anyone else.
Thank god you don't have to swipe through all those loserly men holding up fish or posing at Vegas pool parties with shot girls wearing the same liquor-branded bikini. Even though you've been waiting for something to go wrong, things just keep getting better and better.
You can't believe how, after dating so many men who went absolutely nowhere and drove you downright batty, no red flags have arisen.6.
You ask "are you seeing anyone regularly" giving her a chance to say no, then you say "If we're going to do this again, I don't want anyone else in the picture". Thats just my opinion and Im not really deep into the psychology of pick up yet, I just do what works for me.
Theres guys on here that Im sure can break it down for you better than me.
Is it too It should never be immediately, honestly.
That's one option that should never be on the table.
I was disgusted, and the excuse she gave was "I didn't know if you were serious, I thought it was just sex".
Six months later, I found out she was seeing another guy on the side casually back when I ran into her, and continued to do so for 3 weeks after we met.
You call him by his real name instead of whatever nickname you were using just so your friends could remember who he is.
He's finally become "John" instead of "skinny legs" or "pre-med."2.
She has never asked for exclusivity and I haven't either.