Man A: I'm single now, but in my last relationship, I was 24 and she was 40. Man C: There's less drama with older women and they are much less likely to be dependent on you. Man A: The social stigma can be tough, but I have brushed it aside. Man A: Some friends thought it was cool in some ways, but other friends didn't. They aren't objects, but in my experience, they certainly aim to please overall.
You don't expect someone who is so much older to have so much in common with you or the desire to connect with you the way some older women do. And with 15 years more experience, they're more interesting to talk to. Man A: Older women are more open to letting you try new things.
“You’re less likely to date a younger guy who’s been divorced, has children or has sexual performance issues.” In 2011, she met Juan Cabrera, now 34, at one of her mixers and soon fell in love. “Millennial men are career-focused and want to travel with successful women and conquer the world together,” says Soletti, who notes she’s seen an uptick in established women signing up specifically to meet younger bucks at her speed-dating events.
Such May-December couplings are no longer seen as relationship outliers — or indicative of deep-seated mommy issues.
Your woman arguably has a larger bundle of life experiences and assumingly more wisdom.
Try to spend as much time with her as possible, learn how she manages her life, her job, her personal matters.
So, six years ago, she started dating studs in their 20s and 30s — and she hasn’t looked back.
“Younger guys tend to be more active, have less baggage,” says Soletti, an event planner who regularly hosts dating mixers.
Whenever you hear about men dating older women, it's often talked about like it's a way to "mix things up" sexually. In this week's Sex Talk Realness, spoke with three men about what it's like to love sleeping with much older women in a world that tries to make it seem like that's a rarity. I love dating in general, but I feel like older woman just have more to offer.
Rarely do you hear about men who specifically want to sleep with women 15 years older than them as more than just a passing Mrs. They have experience that is more valuable than anything.
My current girlfriend pursued me on social media and then we started dating. My last girlfriend and I would sit down and listen to all my favorite music, and it was a real bonding experience I'd never had before. Man B: I've never gotten anything more than a "huh."Man C: Sometimes people think I'm her son, but when that happens we just look at each other and laugh. " They'll also mention how it's been acceptable for older men to date much younger women and then question why it's not more socially acceptable for women to date younger guys.