Argument #3: Facebook will not take your time and attention away from things you currently find important because you can access it on your phone during times, like waiting in line, that would otherwise be wasted. Facebook, like most social media, is addictive, because it offers, at all points, the possibility of finding out something that someone is saying times will be reduced.If I start checking Facebook during my downtime, in other words, I’m convinced that the overall quality and quantity of time I can spend doing hard things — like writing or solving proofs — will, rather quickly, begin to decrease.
A woman's dating preference is the ultimate paradox. In two studies highlighted in “Sex Roles, A Journal of Research,” the “nice guy paradox” is explored.
The thing is, while we're constantly on the lookout for that super sweet, caring guy who will make a great companion, we're actually attracted to the guy who ignites passion within us. There's just something so satisfying about taking the jerk home from the bar who's spent most of the night intellectually challenging you in a heated verbal debate. This nice guy stereotype contends that women often claim they want a nice guy, a man who is sweet, kind and sensitive, and yet, when it comes down to it, she rejects this man for one with “other salient characteristics” like a hot body or an ultra strong personality.
Do what your heart tells you, because I wouldn’t want you to lose a great boyfriend material because you made him run around in circles for far too long.
What I’m going to tell you here are the benefits of a chase, and how it can actually help you and better the prospective relationship.
He only talks about his own problems —never yours — but he wants a lady by his side because it makes him feel worthy. Since he knows women believe in words not actions, he dares talk about marriage and future plans with you, knowing it’s what you want to hear.
So, he keeps her there by asking her to help him “until he’s ready.” But, guess what: He’ll never be ready, and so, he is not husband material. But that’s all he’ll do; no further action is ever taken. This guy lets you do all the talking about marriage you like.So, when men speak sweetly to women, women believe them, even if they don’t behave accordingly.Men, on the other hand, see how women behave, and interpret the behavior to mean what they want to believe, regardless of what the woman says.So when it comes to sex, women are more inclined toward the fiery, passionate qualities they attribute to the “bad boy” or the alpha male, but when it comes to dating and serious relationships, women claim to want a “nice guy.”Girls like to have someone around to whom they can express their feelings, but women are sexual creatures, so when it's time to jump in the sack, we want a guy who is going to lay it down.This means even though we ladies claim to want serious relationships with good guys, we end up going for the guy who's no good for us.There is never a timeframe for actions; actions are even never discussed, and if they come up, the conversation suddenly goes in different directions. He knows you dream about it; he listens to you discuss it in great detail — where your home will be, what kind of furniture you’ll buy, what kind of wedding you want.